Raymond Burr, the legendary star of “Perry Mason,” hid a powerful secret behind his public image. While he captivated audiences with his portrayal of a stoic defense attorney, his real life was far more complex—and far more loving—than anyone knew.
Burr crafted a narrative of personal tragedy, claiming he had suffered through three failed marriages, one wife tragically lost in a plane crash, another who left him, and a third who passed away from cancer. He also spoke of a son he claimed to have lost to leukemia. However, after his death, it was revealed that these heartbreaking stories were all fabrications. Burr had only one documented marriage, to Isabella Ward, who confirmed there were no previous wives or children.
The truth was far different: Burr was in a secret, 35-year relationship with Robert Benevides, a former actor and producer. Their love, sustained in the shadows due to the social norms of the time, was a deep and enduring bond. Burr referred to Benevides as “my husband” in private, and together they built a life, including co-owning a vineyard in Sonoma County.
In addition to his private love story, Burr was deeply committed to charity. He sponsored 27 children worldwide, providing them with education and support, a testament to his compassionate character.
When Burr passed away, he left his entire estate to Benevides, finally acknowledging the love that had sustained him for decades. While his public persona may have been carefully constructed, it’s his genuine love for Benevides and his lifelong commitment to helping others that will truly define his legacy.
