I invited a man to my home for a romantic dinner: exactly at 8 p.m., there was a knock at the door. I opened it and froze at what I saw š±š±
My friends said I had lost my mind when I started paying attention to men again. Iām 54 years old, my husband left me. I just wanted to feel loved and desired once more.
Thatās when a new man appeared in my life. We were neighbors and occasionally met in the park. We often talked and gradually grew closer.
One day, he invited me on a date. I decided to host it at my place. I made everything beautiful and romantic: candles, dinner, musicājust the two of us.
Exactly at 8 p.m., there was a knock at the door. I went to open it⦠and froze at what I saw š±š± I never expected this.
On the doorstep stood my new manāno flowers, no gift, not even the slightest gesture of attention.

āAre you serious?ā I asked, unable to believe my eyes.
āWhatās wrong?ā he replied, surprised.
āWhere are the flowers? Whereās the attention?ā
He smirked:
āWhat flowers? Iām not a kid to give āflowers.āā
I sighed and suddenly realized:
āAnd Iām not a girl to settle for men like you. At my age, I donāt need someone who canāt even appreciate a woman in the little things. I triedāI made it romantic. Itās better if you leave⦠and forget about me.ā

The door closed, the candles continued to burn, and the dinner went untouched.
The next day, I told my friends everything. Some said I did the right thingāthat I deserved more and shouldnāt settle for scraps. Others insisted Iād missed my last chance, that at my age, I should grab anyone I could.
And I sit and think: is it really worth fearing being alone if the alternative is betraying myself?
