Ariana Grande’s new romance with Ethan Slater has sparked a whirlwind of reactions online, with fans divided over their relationship and its controversial origins. The two first met while working on the set of the Wicked film adaptation in December 2022, where Grande played Glinda and Slater portrayed Boq. Their professional collaboration quickly turned personal by mid-2023, coinciding with significant changes in both their lives. While both were separated from their spouses when their connection deepened, the timing of these transitions has raised questions and concerns among some fans and critics.
Public reactions have been mixed, particularly after details of Slater’s divorce from his wife Lilly Jay surfaced. The couple, who had a child together in 2022, split in July 2023—just months after Slater celebrated his first Mother’s Day with Jay. Meanwhile, Grande’s divorce from Dalton Gomez was finalized in September 2023. The overlapping timelines have led to backlash from some, who accuse the couple of being insensitive, while others defend their relationship. Slater’s warm and authentic interactions with fans further fueled the debate, with supporters even dubbing him the “male version” of Grande due to their shared energy and personalities.
Despite the controversy, Grande and Slater have remained public about their relationship, making appearances at events, including dinners with Grande’s father and outings to support each other’s careers. A viral video of Slater interacting with fans in late 2024 reignited discussions, with fans praising his approachable nature, while critics pointed out the issues surrounding his divorce. The couple’s every move continues to be scrutinized, but they appear focused on building their life together.
Slater, a Tony-nominated actor known for his role in SpongeBob SquarePants: The Broadway Musical, has seen his fame rise, though his personal life has also been the subject of much attention. Grande has defended Slater, describing him as “a person with the best heart” in an interview, dismissing tabloid rumors about their relationship, and emphasizing the importance of mutual support and personal growth.
Despite facing criticism, Grande and Slater seem determined to focus on their happiness. The singer’s reflections on overcoming negativity and embracing love show her resilience, and their journey together continues to resonate with their supporters.